What does the American Dream mean to you? For many, it’s long been defined by the goal of owning a home. From a young age, I was taught that homeownership represented a significant milestone—a key part of achieving success and stability.

But homeownership is more than just a financial investment. Yes, it helps build equity, generational stability, and wealth. But have you ever considered that owning a home also contributes to neighborhood stability, economic opportunity, and even educational achievement? It’s remarkable how a place to call your own can have such a ripple effect on both personal and community levels.

We often take our homes for granted. They’re just there, waiting for us at the end of each day, exactly how we left them—mess and all. (And wouldn’t it be nice if a good fairy would come by to clean up and do the dishes?) I once read that making your bed each morning can set the tone for a productive day because at least you’ve accomplished one thing. Small routines like that remind us to appreciate the stability our homes provide.

Owning a home is a significant responsibility. It requires ongoing care—from fixing leaky roofs to maintaining plumbing, electrical systems, and windows. One of my inspectors once told a young couple, “If you keep up with maintenance, you will own the home. If not, the home will own you.” How true those words are.

Next year marks my 20th anniversary as a Real Estate Agent and Broker. It’s incredible how time flies. I know colleagues who have been in the industry even longer, and we all share the joy of seeing clients purchase their first homes. Watching them start their journeys—making memories and growing their families—is deeply rewarding.

Over the years, I’ve learned many lessons, both good and challenging. I’ve worked with countless buyers and sellers—some who took my advice and others who didn’t. I’ve met exceptional Realtors and some not-so-great ones. And yes, I’ve made mistakes along the way—who hasn’t? Life is about learning and growing. As the saying goes, “Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass—it’s about dancing in the rain.”

If you’re considering buying or selling a home, here are two key tips:

1. Get Pre-Approved: Before you do anything else, get pre-approved for a mortgage. This step helps you understand your budget and ensures you’re ready to make an offer. Knowing your payment limits will help you avoid becoming financially overburdened.
2. Prepare Your Home for Sale: If you’re selling, declutter your space and address any maintenance issues. Fix anything that’s broken or outdated to make your home as appealing as possible to potential buyers.

Until next month, cherish your home—whether you own or rent. Make memories and enjoy the space you call your own.